reconnecting with people in your life
In the hustle and bustle of life, it’s easy to lose touch with friends.
There will be people you used to really enjoy spending time with, that simply exist superficially in your life through social media.
Rekindling friendships requires effort, much like exercise. It may not always feel easy or convenient, but the rewards are often worth it. It’s natural to feel nervous about reaching out, but the likelihood is they’re experiencing the same apprehension.
If there’s someone you’ve been meaning to reach out to, who you’ve missed, chances are they’re feeling the same way too. You know deep down if one of you did, it’d be just like old times.
Imagine being on the receiving end of a “hey, it’s been a minute…” message from a mate you haven’t properly talked to in a little while. You’d feel pretty good right?
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Part of that conversations movement is to encourage people to take that step and reach out.
We love hearing stories of people all over who are grateful for the nudge to reconnect.
Charliee in Melbourne Australia caught up with a friend they hadn’t talked to in 18 months. What followed was an initially awkward, but ultimately pleasant conversation about their friend’s creative interests and loving relationship. They ended the chat by discussing how they should catch up again soon.
Rechelle in San Diego USA reconnected with her friend Bonnie, catching each other up on their respective families. Similarly, Rechelle’s advice for others is that “You have nothing to lose and everything to gain by staying connected to those you love.”
Tony in Alberta Canada spoke to a friend he’s known for 45 years, but hadn’t heard from in a few months. The nudge from the #conversationsweek campaign led to Tony asking his friend for support with personal challenges, and the reflection that while it’s not easy, asking for help is critical. Tony commented that “People are typically more willing to support than you may assume.”
Who have you been meaning to check in with lately?
Take this post as permission to send that message, or ring them up.